The Changing Dynamics of Family in South Korea

The event was organized to celebrate and discuss the captivating book penned by Hwang Sunwoo and Kim Hana, both aged 47, shedding light on their singular journeys as single women navigating life in South Korea. However, an unexpected critique arose from a man in the audience, expressing concerns that their narrative could further deteriorate the country’s already dwindling birthrate, the lowest globally. Ironically, the man, also unmarried, pointed fingers at the authors, holding them responsible for potentially influencing more women to opt out of marriage.

South Korean society is deeply rooted in patriarchal norms and revolves around traditional family ideals. Government benefits and incentives are predominantly structured to favor families, yet an increasing number of South Koreans are veering away from the conventional institution of marriage. Consequently, the family-centric support system is gradually disintegrating, leading to a decline in the nation’s quality of support network, with South Korea ranking the lowest among developed nations in this aspect. Alarmingly, the country also grapples with the highest suicide rate among these nations.

For Ms. Kim and Ms. Hwang, who emphasize that they are not romantically involved with each other or anyone else, the key lies in redefining the very essence of family. Their acclaimed 2019 book, “Two Women Live Together,” has resonated widely, sparking discussions and challenging societal norms. Their popular weekly podcast, “Two Women Talk Together,” has garnered a vast audience, amplifying the voices of South Koreans—particularly women—who are reshaping traditional family structures through cohabiting partnerships beyond the confines of marriage.

Legally in South Korea, a family unit comprises only spouses, parents, and children, with same-sex marriage remaining prohibited. Nevertheless, the housing and social welfare systems are increasingly strained as more individuals opt for alternative family structures, prompting a societal shift towards inclusivity and reevaluation of what constitutes a family.